I guess the most controversial view I hold is that gays should be allowed to marry, with full benefits and rights the same as heterosexual couples. I am also sympathetic to illegal immigration. I think most illegals genuinely want to work and make a better life for themselves and their families, and many end up doing the jobs that most citizens don't want to do anyway.

   

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I'm visiting some friends in San Diego, and having a blast so far. Last night we went to a club downtown to see a good '80s cover band, and I wasn't driving so I could get good and drunk (but not drunk enough to have a hangover - yay). This weekend we are also going to the Wild Animal Park and a winery. So it will be a full weekend, and one I don't want to end.

Meanwhile, I have decided to be just friends with Mr. NY. We have differing philosophies about how obligatory our chats are, plus I want to give him the option to have kids, and I don't really want them. I thought I would grudgingly agree to have kids with the right person, but I've reconsidered that.